Death and Resurrection

When I was much much younger, I didn't deal very well with death and especially the idea that death is inevitable. I always thought that only bad people die. Good people never die. How naive!!!
The last couple of weeks has been a time for me to re-examine my attitude towards death.
Of course, you would know that the Pope has just passed away recently. This news came at a time when I was still contemplating the death of my sister-in-law's mum. My sister-in-law's mum (Let's call her Mdm T) was in many ways similar to my own mum - at least that is what I gathered from my conversations with my sister in-law. From the litttle I know, I would think Mdm T is much like my mum who can be described as a no-nonsense, stoic, pragmatic and serious woman.
I attended the funeral service of Mdm T, and I was deeply moved by the eulogy her son gave at the service. I was deeply moved by his sharing of his experiences with his late mother. It was clear that Mdm T was a good woman, a good wife and most of all a good mother.
The day was dedicated to all my mothers. Mothers who have committed their lives to bringing up their children, mothers who have sacrificed much, mothers who are just happy to contribute without asking for a reward or compensation. The eulogy included sharings of very touching incidents between Mdm T and her son. These sharings showed that Mdm T personified the love Christ has for us. It made real the meaning of selfless love.
This got me thinking a lot about the women in my life. I can't recall many dramatic events in my life but I'm very grateful to my mum and wife for just being there when I needed them. It was at this time that I looked across the church and saw Mdm T's husband - my sister-in-law's father. To me, he is a brave man. I can only imagine what it must be like to lose a life companion. Of course, he is upset and he shed tears. But, I could tell he is holding up alright despite his age. He showed courage, courage which I'm not sure I can muster. My heart went out to him and I asked God to show mercy and give him strength... but more importantly.... to give me strength too....
Mdm T's eulogy proceeded while my mind was still wondering how I would cope... The sharings were very heart-felt and touching to those present in the church. However it ended on a bright note - the belief that Mdm T is in heaven and that she will be resurrected at Christ's second coming. How wonderful is that! Death is only a mere detour to our final destination.